.Strephon Says 5 Childhood-Adult Dreams
We take an adult dream about childhood dynamics and point out how the dream shows the dreamer's struggle to become fully herself by seeing her parents now in their true reality, including their dark sides that she must watch out for.
Principles to live by:
-Separate out from parents to be your own person.
-Make conscious your childhood identity created by your biological parents so that you can free yourself from this childhood identity and become truly adult in an adult world.
-Use your dreams and dreamwork to separate out from inner images and attitudes of childhood attached to images of parents and you as a child.
-The work of becoming adult means freeing yourself of childhood images, expectations, defense systems, attitudes and values.
-Become your own person. Choose to be your own self in your adult life.
The inner key to adult life is to remove from your inner self the parental influences of childhood that keep you dependent inside to the images and attitudes put on you in childhood.
Thus, even if you are not seeing your parents, or living with them, you can still be controlled by the image of yourself that you had to identify with, even as you rebelled, so as to get along with your parents who dominated you in childhood.
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